Is he the One!!??
Guys, guys.. Before I start, let me tell you, this is just some random content, of a random mind, if taken seriously, or tried, I am not responsible for the consequences. :-p please handle them yourselves.
If you still want to read it, then go ahead..
Ok, So .. here we are,, at the most important question which takes most of our time, of how to choose that one special person of our life.. How will I know, He is the One..!??
Yea, we all have our dream guy.. Intelligent , Humorous, Handsome +Cute, sweet, caring-loving, artistic, good body, stylish and swaggy, famous, rich.. etc etc (these attributes are in order of my prefernces) may vary from person to person..!. and as you get this list, you start finding the one, who has these qualities, firstly in the guys who like you.. ;) Bcz "I think", girls usually don't like to go behind guys.. they are too lazy to do that.. and most of times there is no such necessity usually.. *Swag*..
So, Basically, these are few kinds of guys, which we girls usually have in our life.. like you see his KTM and he gives a naughty smile (bad boy kind), and that just swept you off your feet and there are butterflies flying around and disturbing you and you are shooing them away.. No?! ya ok.. ! Or you have this guy, who is like veryy humourous, like if you say "hi", he would be replying with a hilarious joke (yeah hell humorous! mind you).. or you have this one person in your list, who is damn intelligent.. ask him anything and he will have some information on it!! now that's like pretty impressive (if intelligence woo's you)..He has solution to all your problems.. Like if you marry him, you will have no problems at all for rest of your life!.. or there is this very cute+hot guy, you just want to pull his cheeks, hug him tightly... and then may be you know ;-) , or there is this verry very caring guy.. like if you sneeze, he is going to call a doctor for you right away.. (like thaaaaat caring!! ) ,, there are all these guys..
So, firstly this is what happens, One fine day : you see this guy, and he has most of the qualities you are looking for , he is ready to take your pictures in hundred frames!! and thousands of selfies that you want to take..:p and there..,you feel, "That"S IT.., I Nailed it.. I found him!! YeahhHH" and you are All HaPpIEEEEE :) that you finally found him.. and you guys get close, you start spending more time with him..taking pictures, eating lot of unnecessary junk food just to hang out with, asking how was your day and etc etc..
But then, some day down the line, one (not so fine) day, you realize something is not working here..!! somewhere at the bottom of your heart, it is acting like, it(your heart!) is trying to jump of out of some abyss, and trying to tell you, "No!!, that's not him.. ", " NO really not..", "I am not confusing you.. bel..zzz", *voices start fading away*.. It feels , its Still not HIM..!! :( .and then there you are all ConFuSeD.. Typical attribute of a girl/woman/grand women.. no such word?! ok Granny!!. :p :p
But why!! Why God Why!!, you think you have finally worked so hard, and found 1 guy out
( because, yea I know, you have waited soooo long, trying to find him and looking for him from like since you were 5 yr old!?.. :p ) But ever wondered why was your heart somewhere down not agreeing with you, even though, it appeared like he was the one!?
The reason is just plain : You dint love him in the first place.. (:-O .. don't look at me like that now plzz,:p )
You were just in love with idea of your Guy, and not that "guy" himself..
when you first met him, there were butterflies, you thought, which were just some plain flies :D :D which you realize later.. because after spending some time with him , you gradually start loosing that little sparks you had between you ppl.. You would one day get bored of his jokes, his cute face, his biker stunts..(feels like, is he from circus?! ;p )... his intelligence may start to annoy you.. and money!!, I actually find it quite boring except for my shopping expenses..! :p so there's nothing much to say about it.. and dats it.. your heart just gives you looks now.. like "I told you..!!! "..
Oops I forgot!, So, I have still not told you how to Confirm On that "ONE", have I ?!..yea, I get cruel sometimes!!, I am just coming there.. above all is crap, below is the point you are looking for! :p
It's very simple.. Like in Matrix movie.. you will just know when he is the "ONE".. may be just wen you exchange your first blinks, or may be gradually.. a little later..! but You will.. you will really feel like there is some connection of me with this idiot here!.. why am I feeling so weird..! This cant be IT.. but guess what!? , that is IT :D :D .. that is the ONe..
he might or might not have all the qualities you have always dreamt of.. but there is this "connection" that is going to bind you.. which you will Feel..
You might find it hard to love him but you will soon realize it is harder to resist him.. In Filmy language, you will feel Like all the dharti , aakash and baarish have started to tell you, this is the one.. *pretty filmy :p** there will be butterflies, which you might think are flies, but they are not.. and there will be some fireworks in the background.. and all these weird things will happen to you, when you find him..! Yes.. satya vachan behna.. :p
And to have some support on my "connection thingy" that I am yapping about, here's a point :there are lot of good painters, singers, handsome hunks, caring angels, cool poets out there, but we don't go falling for all of them, just coz they have those few qualities we like.. there are still very few people with whom we feel connected and this ONE, will make you feel the strongest connection. :D :). Yes this leaves a pebble unturned here (IYKWIM)..
Oh GAWD!! seems all crappy?!!! Well I have warned you before!.. :p this is all random content.. But guess what... this does happen!! :p when you truly love someone, you will love them no matter what.. If you love them for some qualities, it will bind you together as long as they have those qualities, once they start loosing it, your love also starts draining out.. with time, you might get bored/used to those qualities.. but if you truly love them, & you feel that connection, then there is nothing in the world, that can separate you.. or stop you from loving that person.. So just wait for him to arrive or that connection to be felt.. some short circuit to happen on your line!!.. :D
I know, nothing that you can control of here,.., well there are these huge Huge planets and stars, swirling and moving here and there randomly at speeds immeasurable in this Universe.. and we feel we can control everything that happens on this tiny winy earth, we dots on it..!.. Well this cannot be.. :D Now go from here.. :p Happy finding your charm..! :p
And Yea.. I love Tangled..!! he he :D :D
