Hey yo People.. Good Day to you..
So, I just was at hospital some days ago, as someone in family was not well... Basically, I really hate going to hospitals for whatever reason.! No offense to anyone, but that place really turns me off in every aspect.. Ill people, Money minded receptionists and Doctors. Especially these receptionists have garnered great deal of hate from me for no mistake of theirs; but they are the ones who ask me to pay these ridiculous amounts..!
But then, you realise, if we had taken care of our health, we wouldn't even be here in first place.! Thank God, that I rarely fall sick, much rarely visit Doctors :) Thank my parents and My mom for that immunity :)..
Well, I felt, I should pen down a few things, a few observations/Lessons learnt..; see if it helps you too.. :)
So, straight to point : all these Prev Gen of ours, (mostly referring to parents and before ones gen)..they dont seem that emotional to me.. They are actually more practical than us.. Seems obvious?! No?!.. Firstly they weren't as pampered as us, nor had as smooth life as ours.. they dint dream much of prince charmings coz they seem to have somehow known there wasn't one!! , They are quite tough.. in handling themselves atleast when their expectations are not met.. We have seen moms to be very emotional, that's coz mostly you are their only outlet?? .. Our gen girls will be much much more emotional with their kids when their time comes.. trust me..
I felt like we are the more emotional ones, we are the weaker and more sensitive ones and so will our next gen be..
I see very few couples from prev Gen who are very emotionally attached to each other..
Aunties actually dont give a damn about uncles ; they treat them more like kids who need to be fed and taken care of their health.. this is their birth duty.. sorry Marriage Duty..
They are born to do this.. (Oh dont you doubt this, society preaches this ,Dont even provoke the feminist in me..) Food and health are their departments.. Rest all aspects of life, they dont understand, nor do they want to.. sure thing, coz uncles too mustn't have given a damn about their wives health or food or other well being.. Coz they think everybody's health and food in home is women's responsibility.. and earning money which they just manage to do is their only sole responsibility.. (which we ladies now know, is not that big of a deal as we too work!)
Their relationship seems to be much more practical than what we guys have with our partners.
Aunties are so much more healthier and happier than these sad , boring uncles coz m sure, uncle mustn't have fetched even a glass of water for himself when his wife is doing all the work.. This has actually worked in favor of women coz they are the most active ones.. and they are actually not dependent on these uncles except for finances..
some have worn out too, coz of totally self centered uncles but then the male favored society wouldn't bother much anyway.
No wonder, I saw more male patients at hospital , and women (their wives) just like taking care of one more casualty of life stood by their side in their sickness... I am not sure how our gen wives would react if something bad happend to their husbands, but I do believe we are trying to create that love and bonding which our prev gen hasn't done for whatever reason.. Mostly society's f...ed up idea? to suppress women!? and it messed everything for them..
Free ka advise to my fellow generation Men and ofcourse women, if you want to be healthier and happier behave like your mum and not your Dad (assuming your mum was most responsible in your family)..
And yea.. Please remember " Health is greatest Wealth ".
Take care.
Shabba Khair.. :p
